Page Title

W

h

at is the real face or nature of someone or

something

that

made or

has

made

us

unhappy?

The contents of life and living in family, marriage, church, association, organization,

institution,

government,

and the world are

always parts of individual life. Therefore, it

is

essential

to know

what

are

the

, function,

and

of a relationship; each of

them

is

unique. Despite

its

individual

uniqueness,

the

,

, and

of a

relationship

remains very the same,

that

is, to

meet

the

need for an

entity to survive,

grow, and

continue

indefinitely

, if any possible.

To

review the items

as

listed in the

following

chapter,

you

should be able to

capture

a bird eye’s

view

of the origin,

function, and

goal

of a

relationship.

With the above frame

work

of thinking and understanding as the foundation of

commonsensical

approach

to

achieve

the goals

of life that we set forth, now let us

work

together

to explore

and

regain

controlled, realistic,

long, happy life

.

Please click the

category of your

choice as above.

In short, we are unhappy if what we do can not satisfactorily bring in something

spiritual and

physical to meet

what we like, love,

want, or need. In daily living, vast majority

of people have

been

struggling between the reality

and expectation of life. The bigger the

gap between reality

and

expectation, the unhappier we are. The reason for

having such a

huge gap is largely

because our

society

has been increasingly under a strong influence

and

control of hypocrisy

and commercialism

to artificially make us feel good.

Consequently, the perception of what

we

like, want, or love to possess

oftentimes does

not reflect what we really need. Although

what we

like, want, or

love will momentarily

satisfy

our

sense of comfort and control, in time and in long

term, we will surely be

disappointed

by the

feeling of being cheated, tricked, lost, and even angry.

So, how can we be happy?

The only

surest way to

regain

happiness is

to live a controlled,

realistic, long, happy life

.

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